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[ 2021-02-19 ]
Our husbands don’t know foreplay during sex, they just ‘enter’- Sirigu women Young sexy girls in Sirigu a community in the
Kasena-Nankana West District of the Upper East
Region are snatching husbands from their wives who
dress like nuns, some wives have complained.
According to the wives, it is against their
customs and tradition to dress “sexy” after
marriage and that is forcing their husbands to go
in for young ladies who dress to kill and arouse.
This is contained in a report by Bolgatanga-based
A1 Radio.
One of the women whose name is given as Jessica
Ayerikia spoke to the Bolgatanga-based Radio
Station said “Our husbands are looking at the
small small girls in the village more than their
wives. The reason is that, nowadays, the ladies,
the way they dress is different from we the
married women. Because we cannot dress like an
unmarried woman, our husbands feel the way the
girls dress so they go to them and leave us”.
Apart from cheating on them with young ladies,
these women complained about the sexual abuses
they suffer at the hands of their hubands.
“A man can return home from a funeral ground
drank and without bathing, he will want to have
sex with you. And when you refuse him sex, maybe
you are tired or you are menstruating, he will
start beating you and saying your body belongs to
him. When that happens to a lady, that lady will
always feel shy to tell somebody that my husband
beats me last night because I refuse to have sex
with him. We always keep it and it is killing us
emotionally,” another woman, Martha Anaaya told
A1 Radio.
The women made these revelations at the launch of
the ‘Equal Rights and Opportunities for Women
and Girls’ project (EROP) held at Sirigu by the
Presbyterian Health Service.
The project which will run for a year seeks to
empower women and the girlchild to fight against
sexual and any gender-based abuses. Source - MyNewsGh.com
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